I do not have a cake on this day -- but I still very happy and blessed because.....
I have.....
~~ my parents are healthy and had a nice talk with my mother on this date
Mother always give me power of strength in handling anger!! Frankly, I am not as good as her as I have to admit that I am a person with bad temper. I really impressed her limit of bearing for so many years --- she just follow the traditional thinking -- put the first priority on her husband and family by sacrified herself a lot!! I love you mother for you limitness giving and giving!!!
Ageing is really beyond my control, the more i grow the more i miss the time to be with you. My heart and sole always love you and be there for you... I am sorry if I really not every time be present for you which also the greatest guilt that i have.
Few days ago, I was crying while I am driving to work -- I miss you a lot.... My heart was bleeding when I recalling that the moment you went into the op room for 3 operations!!! The waiting time was the longest and painful that I had ever experienced. However, the recovery period also was the best and thoughful experience that I had.... We are opened to ourself during the difficult period and thanks for allowing me to step into you to feel how painful but yet the stronger that within you. Cloudy day has gone, come the sunny day..... and your supporting smile and reminders would be the valuable things that I am enjoying. A big kiss and big hug to you, my dearest mum --- Thank you for your unconditional care and love!!!
~~ my kids are doing great and adorable
Whenever I reach home, there sure a warm welcoming message from my 2 little darling - JiaEnn and YewXuan! Their laughter and innocent behaviour really make my days different and colourful. It is just about simple -- act like a child!!! Just enjoying -- singing songs, playing hide and seek, doing art and craft, simple cooking, etc etc.... I just happy to hear JE say -- "mummy, you are back, today I have a suprise for you!" -- it just a normal drawing paper with 3 words "I love You" but it is fulfilling with a little girl 's love.....
They still to young to understand how cruel or how realistic this world is, but they will care what they really want to care for -- their lovely parent and toys. I always be treated differently --cannot be replaced!!! I am so proud to have this "status". They are learning new things everydays. They are very responsive and participative to every single event that come into their mind. Both of them learnt to make present for Mother's day, they were just holding their final product until it reachs my hand They know there should be a cake and presents for me on this date -- -- so thoughful they are!!.
In conjunction with Mothers' Day, JE has taken part in an open coloring contest!! The registration was done 2 weeks befor the actual day. She just keeping telling the whole family and her school mates about this, not only that, we everyday were counting down for it -- it is a very special day for her!!! On the actual scene, I can see most of the parents keep reminding their kids such as "do not add any things in your drawings; you only have 2 hours time; do talk; and so on......... But me??? I never emphasize or restrict her regarding the rule of the contest, but just leave to her to explore by herself. Of course i did briefly run through with her beforehand. I was so happy as she could manage well on the actual day! You are right, she could not get any prizes on that day -- which I also explained to her why. She hapilly acceptted and move on.... Of course, by the end of the day, i share this with hb and we agreed to buy her a present - bicycle.
~~ Normal but Happy family
no different from others, I have my lovely hb and a happy family. We owe most of the basic things. It just like an giant imcomplete puzzle -- we are all working hand in hand to complete it. The final picture still too early to know now but I am very sure it going to be the most prefect and unique one!!!
Will be coming up with more new lovely pictures as we still waiting for one more member to say hello to us in this coming September.... As I said, no definate pictures how is the puzzle as it keep expanding and expanding....
PS: Dear, do not forget you still owe me one slide of marble cheese cake... LOL
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